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Introducing The Dilettante Tea Party by The Viridian Tea Company
Late last year in the middle of autumn, I received a most intriguing email from across the water. The Viridian Tea Company, an independent tea creator in Colorado would like to concoct a blend of loose leaf tea specially for The Dilettante, would we be interested? The timing seemed most auspicious. Serendipitously I had just been clearing out the tea cupboard at the local bistro I was working at at the time (yes, us magazine people have day jobs sadly), sifting through jars of hibiscus, linden and peppermint and admiring the potpourri of scents and shapes. After perusing the amazing array of teas available on the Viridian Tea Company shop, my interest was sealed and I replied to say absolutely. Curious to find out more about the imaginatively titled blends made by The Viridian Tea Company, I had a chat with founder Kimberly Richardson to learn about her inspirations, ingredients and other creative pursuits. If you take the original true sense of the word Dilettante - 'to delight in the arts' - then The Viridian Tea Company founder Kimberly Richardson certainly fits the title. A writer, violinist and bona fide tea connoisseur, she has been combining her creative passions into making tea since 2015. Kimberly was once a self-professed die hard coffee drinker ("I thought that green tea would taste like hay") and it wasn't until she read an article about the health benefits of green tea and tried a brew from Celestial Seasonings that her mind began to change. "From there, I broadened my horizons and tea palate," she explains. The Butler Did It! (assam, lavender, rose hips, and hibiscus) is a 'thank you to all of the mystery authors of the world', while Siren's Voice (jasmine, lemongrass, passionflower, roses, and dried apples) is inspired by legends of mermaids. In the past seven years Kimberly has attended tea festivals and expos, taken part in Japanese tea ceremonies, became a certified Tea Specialist, and finally decided to experiment in creating her own tea blends under The Viridian Tea Company. The ingredients alone sound delicious. Using everything from rose petals and elderberry to dried apples and saffron, Kimberly sets her brews apart by the good dose of imagination that is added to each blend. "I want my tea blends to satisfy the soul and be delicious, so I choose ingredients that will give the drinker a cup they’ll never forget." Inspired by books, artwork, music, and science, a world is conjured within each concoction. The Butler Did It! (assam, lavender, rose hips, and hibiscus) is a "thank you to all of the mystery authors of the world", while the "silky and seductive" Siren's Voice (jasmine, lemongrass, passionflower, roses, and dried apples) is inspired by legends of mermaids. Hypatia's Blend (green tea, sencha, calendula, chamomile, ginger, orange peel, peppermint, mint) is an ode to the Hellenistic mathematician, astronomer, and philosopher Hypatia, who is considered to be the first recorded female mathematician, and Caligula's Herbal Nerve Tonic (chamomile, rose hips, dried orange peel, peppermint, herbal tea, tisane) was invented whilst going down an Ancient Greece research rabbit hole. "How in the heck can you make tea that will taste like quantum physics?" The answer? White tea blended with spearmint and lemongrass. One of her favourite concoctions and most popular blends is called Quantum Mechanics . "I love science, especially all things quantum physics, so when the idea came to make an inspired tea blend, my first thought was - how in the heck can you make tea that will taste like quantum physics?" The answer: white tea blended with spearmint and lemongrass, which does indeed sound like it captures the fresh, futuristic elements of mad revolutionary science. Another mixture, Imported Tea From Pluto , takes inspiration from a world lightyears away from our own. "I always thought that Pluto got a bad rap, so I created a story in which I as a traveling tea merchant landed on Pluto and met the inhabitants. Turns out, they’ve been excelling in all forms of art, including tea, so I struck a deal with them to bring some of their tea back to Earth. The blend is a white tea with cacao nibs and peppermint - like Peppermint Patties!" With such a far-reaching imagination, it is no surprise that Kimberly is also a writer. Penning "murder mysteries, dark fantasy, literary fiction, cyberpunk, ONE romance, and (ahem) adult fiction," Kimberly sees tea and reading as perfect partners. "I want people to enjoy a good cup of tea that will hopefully transport them to the inspirational source. I want their reading time to be enhanced and enchanted." Creating blends to accompany her books, she finds that the ingredients and tastes of a story come to light as she writes. "Most if not all of my books have inspired at least one tea blend," she explains. " Order of the Black Silk , is a dark fantasy involving immortal plague doctors and the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse who are related to each other: Death is the eldest brother, Pestilence and War are the middle twins, and Famine is the youngest. " And the tea that came of it? A blend of assam tea, lemongrass, dried orange peel, and dried cranberries , to help the reader enter the "Otherworldy city of Cinis." It isn't only writing that stirs inspiration for Viridian Tea. "My creativity is fuelled by the world and I try to push past my comfort zones of blending." As a violin student she has created two blends that came to to her whilst playing her violin (named 'Frederica') and listening to violin concertos. "Tea changed my life for the better and I am glad for it," says Kimberly. Introducing The Dilettante Tea Party! Being ardent arty dabblers ourselves, the idea of combining creative ventures is something The Dilettante is very much in favour of. After a few weeks of discussing ingredients with Kimberly, she suggested a blend of smoky black tea, ginger, vanilla bean powder and elderberry. I'm not quite sure how she managed to fathom it, but I couldn't have picked a better flavour, and since the tea arrived last week I have been hooked. Refined, dark and full of atmosphere, it is perfect for a cosy evening of reading in silk pyjamas, and has been bringing an air of warmth and elegance to these January days. Collaborating with Kimberly on our The Dilettante Tea Party blend has been an absolute pleasure, and we highly recommend ordering yourself a bag to brighten up the final days of winter! Treat yourself to a Dilettante Tea Party by clicking here . There are also many more delicious blends to try via The Viridian Tea Company on Etsy , or give Viridian Tea a follow on Instagram. Follow The Dilettante around the internet by finding us on Facebook and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety .
Agony! with Professor Elemental
It is with great pleasure that The Dilettante presents the whimsical, witty and wise Professor Elemental as our resident Agony Uncle.
The chap-hop maestro not only has a plethora of amusing lyrical tales under his hat, but he is also a sound source of guidance when life gets tricky. Here is some of his sage advice to readers' problems, which appeared in issue one of The Dilettante magazine in Dec e mber 2021, plus a few of our favourite tracks by the Professor. Are you wading through treacle? Getting your knickers in a twist? Has someone got your dander up? Why don’t you take a seat, grab a complimentary custard cream and tell me all about it.
...Yes, I might leave things worse than they were before. And no, I’m not terribly interested in the consequences of dishing out potentially awful advice to strangers, but that’s what makes it so fun. I’ll do what I can to help. And if I can’t help, then maybe we’ll just have a jolly good giggle together.
Yours sincerely etc, etc, and so forth, Professor Elemental Found yourself in a pickle? Send us your quandaries, dilemmas and disputes and we'll pass them on for the Professor to solve in a future issue. Dear Professor, We have all changed after the plights of the past year, but personally, to my horror ,I seem to have re-emerged in the form of a grown up. I spend much of my free time making encouraging comments to my potato plants, I’ve started entering competitions in the Puzzler, and I even accidentally bought a pair of crocs one wild evening in the middle aisle of Aldi.
I know my Bright Young Thing is still in there somewhere, but I fear it is too late. How can I remedy this? Is there any hope for me? Yours, an unwilling potato twitcher. Dear Twitcher, Never fear! Old age comes to us all. Well except me of course, thanks to that painting I keep in the attic. If you are without a mystical painting however, you might find yourself rather upset at the onset of wrinkles and forehead lines that make the top of your head look like a badly ploughed field.
I bring good news from the front however, you are now old enough to stop caring what other people think of you! Even better, you are practically invisible to all but other elderlies, meaning you can do WHATEVER YOU WANT.
Why not take up a new hobby like starting food fights with strangers in motorway services, swearing at teenagers or shoplifting. You’ll be amazed at what you can get away with if you really put your mind to it. Free yourself from self doubt and lean into being old, just be careful not to put your back out while you do it.
There’s no excuse for crocs though. Burn them by fire immediately. 'Wages of Gin' by Professor Elemental Dear Professor,
Having recently left a long-term relationship and quit my job, I’ve decided it’s time to reinvent myself.
I began by burning my personal effects in the garden, which, to the disgruntlement of my neighbours, inevitably led to a night of naked dancing around the bonfire of my previous life.
Now I can start from scratch, I have been toying with becoming a full time surrealist. I’ve invested in several pet lobsters and am now proudly sporting a tremendous moustache, but the world is still appearing quite normal and I am struggling to find my tribe.
Do you have any advice on how to meet like-minded folk with a passion for the strange side of life?
Yours, a wannabe escapist. Dear Escapist,
After some considerable exploration, I have cornered the 5 best subcultures to aid your new life:
1. Steampunk: Friendly nerds who dress in Science fiction and Victorian outfits and drink a lot.
2. Fleapunk: Friendly entomophiles who dress as insects and drink a lot. Surprisingly erotic, but I appreciate my tastes are quite niche.
3. Treepunk: Friendly dendrophiles who dress as trees and go to parks to blend in. Can be a little on the quiet side.
4. Cheesepunk: Friendly cheesemongers and their fans who gather for Cheesecon each year. Very delicious, but quite smelly.
5. Sneezepunk: Just people with really bad allergies. Actually I’d avoid this one. Awful.
Please do get in touch if you need details of such local meetings. Good Luck! 'Jumble Sale' by Professor Elemental Dear Professor, During lockdown I commissioned an artist to paint a life-size portrait of myself, which I have now placed over my mantelpiece. I think it’s absolutely gorgeous and would like to collect more such portraits, but my housemate says it makes them uncomfortable and has accused me of delusions of grandeur. Am I misguided and edging towards narcissism or should I continue to celebrate my beautiful face with more work? Yours, a (fabulously modest) patron of the arts. Dear Fabulous,
What is wrong with people these days? If a person can’t hang a life sized portrait of ones own naked face and body in ones own living room, then what is the point of even having a living room.
The problem is you haven’t gone far enough: try sculpting a life sized model of yourself in butter to place in the kitchen, paint yourself with angel wings on every ceiling and tattoo a picture of your own face on the face of your housemate while they sleep. Surely when they are faced with endless inescapable images of you, your housemate will come around. Or not. Worth a bash anyway. 'I'm British' by Professor Elemental This article was featured in issue one of The Dilettante magazine. Click here to pick up a copy ! We highly recommend brightening up your day by entering the world of Professor Elemental via his Patreon , YouTube , Facebook or Soundcloud .
And don't forget, if you've found yourself in a spot of botheration and need some advice, you can send us your quandaries, dilemmas and disputes and the Professor may be able to be of aid. Don't forget to follow The Dilettante to enjoy historical and creative treats and keep up with our news - you can find us on Facebook , Spotify and Instagram or search for us using #TheDilettanteSociety !
Miss Onion's Exquisite Finds: Dilettante Edition #1
Miss Onion, a quaintrelle of fine taste and far flung fancies, is a collector of exquisite things. She is a guest writer for The Dilettante Magazine and this feature was originally featured in issue one, which can be found here . Read on to hear some of the gorgeous treasures and finds she has to share...
I am Miss Onion, welcome to my cabinet of curiosities, a universe governed by beauty and leisure. Like any young mother with a full-time job, my very limited spare time is precious to me. So I use it to seek out beautiful and inspiring gems - works of art, educational and cultural things to watch or listen to, ideas for style, décor and DIY, captivating reads, and more. Every week, I unearth seven treasures, old and new. I wrap them with a bow and send them out into the world in The Miss Onion newsletter . Sometimes frivolous, always exquisite, these are delicious treats to help escape the mundane and give a sip of inspiration ...Shall we? Manuscript Books I prefer my writers dead. That may sound odd, but it’s true. Of course, I love many books by contemporary authors, but I am much more fascinated by someone in the past writing from a time long gone, old stories and images brought to life before my very eyes through pen and ink ...The trouble is, it is difficult to connect with the dead and get insights into their process. Luckily, you can now buy brilliant printed manuscripts of some of the most famous and beloved books of all time from SP Books . Seeing the scribbles, the words that were cut or underlined, the breaks in the flow of writing, is very special and these private moments are superior to any modern interview with an author on a book tour. SPBOOKS.COM Bejewelled Turbans They say you’re always one decision away from a totally different life. I like to think I am always one decision away from a fabulous soirée. I need this turban, just in case that party invite arrives and I get the chance to step into a secret world. There’s nothing I don’t love about Julia Clancey’s Studio 54 infused creations, from the rich colours to the beaded tassel earrings and the oversized brooches! These are statement pieces and show-stopping outfits for inviting a little ritz into your life. JULIACLANCEY.COM Flower Totes Give me an object I can absolutely live without, an object which serves no other purpose than its very specific intended one, and I somehow need it. A flower tote is similar to a bookmark – you can use pretty much anything instead and you can’t use it for anything else really - but I want a dozen to match my outfit, my mood, the position of the stars, the flowers themselves and everything in between. Whimsicality aside, scientific research has shown that fresh flowers and plants have a positive impact on mental wellness, so this bag really is a self-care reminder to buy yourself a bouquet once in a while. You’re welcome! ETSY.COM/UK/SHOP/FLOWERPOZZY Wax Sculptures You could call these candles, or you could call them wax sculptures. I believe they are unintentionally designed for those of the rare breed that likes to buy candles but never really burn them (this is a genuine niche!).
For the rest of us, we can sit and watch the beautiful silhouettes transform as they melt, and perhaps find some hidden metaphor in the process. SHOPSAINTE.COM Italian Castles ...Now, I know this one is a bit of a stretch, but a few months of budgeting and cutting out avocado toast should do the trick, right? I read somewhere that being rich takes some getting used to and I am determined to be prepared should riches befall me. I had no idea until recently that I could actually window shop for a big Italian castle or better yet, an estate. (I will warn you - it’s quite addictive). Well, I have perused what is available and I am ready for this daydream to happen. Who knows, we could even become far-flung neighbours? LIONARD.COM For more of Miss Onion's Exquisite Finds you can subscribe to her weekly newsletter , check out her website MissOnion.ro or follow her on Instagram here . Don't forget to follow The Dilettante - you can find us on Facebook and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety !
Creative Confabs: Q&A with Alchemical Artist Dr. B
Welcome to The Dilettante Creative Confabs in which we chat to contemporary, independent artists about their work, inspirations, and creative process. This time around we speak to Cornwall artist Dr B., who creates ever-changing alchemical artworks using natural materials found in the local landscape. We usually think of works of art as static; something diligently crafted and composed, until at at last the artist decides it is complete. Exploring the intersection between art, alchemy and science, Dr B.'s work covers themes of time and transformation. By utilising the natural electro-chemical reactions made by combining specially concocted solutions with materials such as tin, copper and iron, the work evolves into beautiful natural hues long after they have been set on the canvas. The Dilettante spoke to DR. B to discover some of his inspirations and processes... Tell us a little about these pieces of work The works are a result of time based electrochemical reactions between differing metals in a conductive fluid. Describe your creative style in three words. Experimental. Alchemical. Emergent. Which artists (alive or dead) would you invite to dinner? What would you talk about? Marcel Duchamp and Leonora Carrington. We would discuss invisible dimensions, serendipity and inframince [a term coined by Duchamp for ephemeral, ultra-thin, and undecidable phenomena – such as the warmth that remains on a chair after a person gets up.] "I take great pleasure from the unexpected surprises my work produces." What do you like to do when you're not making art and does this feed into your art? Read strange tales, mindlessly doodle, listen to atmospheric music, walk in wild woods looking at lichen and fungi. This takes my mind to quiet inners spaces where ideas might spontaneously emerge from the deepest depths. Is your process messy and chaotic or considered and organised? Both. It's a combination of creating the appropriate electrochemical environments from which surprising chaotic forms and colours emerge. It can be messy when a work leaks. If you could go back in history and mingle within any creative movement, when would you go and why? Dada and surrealism. Surrealism tapped into and enabled the expression and sharing of the unconscious. They all seemed to be having a lot of fun challenging the conventions of the time. Where do you look for inspiration? Does it lie in the past, present or future? It lies in the present, the immediate past with an eye to the future. I take great pleasure from the unexpected surprises my work produces. What are you working on now? Two new larger reaction pieces alongside concocting a new experimental conductive fluid. What is the best piece of creative advice you have to share? Dare to risk and constantly surprise yourself. Why do you think art is important? It's a magical and energetic space supporting freedom of expression and the cultivation of imagination "It makes me realise how fluid time is, how short our lives are, how time passes, its strange properties, short, fast, slow, finite, infinite." Do you need certain conditions to create? An empty mind and a quiet space with no distractions. What is your favourite piece of art of all time and what drew you to it? Étant donnés, Given: 1. The Waterfall, 2. The Illuminating Gas Sculptural artwork by Marcel Duchamp and Rrose Sélavy. 1946–1966. It was made secretly with instructions that it would be shown after his death. How does your art practice help your outlook on the world? It's very contemplative. It makes me realise how fluid time is, how short our lives are, how time passes, its strange properties, short, fast, slow, finite, infinite and how we all live in our bubbles of awareness, passing through time as it were. What do you do when you are stuck for inspiration? Go for a walk, ideally by the sea or in the rain, or up a hill or in some woods. When did you decide to become an artist? I've always been one. No decision was involved! Why did you decide to become an artist? Actually having a surplus of 'free time' has helped enormously. What struggles do you face creatively and do you have a remedy? Sometimes one gets stuck or loses the inclination. Best not to stress out, do something else, cook, read, play a game, make some noise. What has been the best moment you've had whilst being an artist? When my work has an independent life of its own and rewards me with its surprising magic and unexpected beauty. Find out more about Dr. B at theartifactsofdrb.com Want to follow The Dilettante around the internet? You can find us on Facebook , Twitter and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety .
Creative Confabs: Q&A with digital surrealist Dr Apeman
By Sophie Gargett Welcome to The Dilettante Creative Confabs in which we chat to contemporary, independent artists about their work, inspirations, and creative process. For the first interview in this series we delve into the mind of Dr. Apeman , a musician and artist with a penchant for whipping up cinematic dreamscapes and psychedelic grooves. We at The Dilettante tend to have a love/h ate relationship with social media. With its ever-changing algorithms, endless holes for procrastinators to fall down, fabricated ideals and such like, social platforms can be utterly perilous for creatives. But, at times, this strange intangible space can lead to great connections, a wealth of inspiration and some dazzling feasts for the eyes. For us, the saving grace of social media is its scope for small, independent artists to showcase their work. One of our latest discoveries is the work of Alexander Valdes, better known as Dr Apeman . Gorilla by Dr Apeman | Music: Taurus by Dr Apeman The magic of Dr Apeman's work is in its dichotomies; vintage and futuristic, static and shifting, familiar and absurd. Blending dada-esque collage techniques and moving visuals, he artfully creates a plethora of strange new worlds; colossal beasts and pin-up models tower over retro cityscapes, distant planets and kaleidoscopic skies overshadow scenes of daily life... Browsing Dr Apeman's work feels rather like perusing a vintage travel guide from the year 2240, creating a wonderful sense of escapism and intrigue. Topping off these visuals with his self-produced music (a mix of 1960s psychedelic funk and lo-fi instrumental grooves), Dr Apeman creates multi-dimensional pieces of art that aren't quite just images, music videos, GIFs, or NFTs (although admittedly we're still not quite sure what this new fangled format is exactly). While our future may not be likely to feature giant animals and mammoth neighbouring planets, from Dr Apeman's work in this new artistic medium we get a glimpse of what art may become as we see technology advance.
Without further ado, let's hear from the man himself!
Hollywood Noir by Dr Apeman | Music Mystery Noir Apeman by Dr Apeman Greetings Dr Apeman! Can you describe your creative style in three words? Surrealist digital collage. What do you like to do when you're not making art and how does this feed into your work? Most of my time I spend producing and composing music. Whenever I get stuck or burnt-out on a track I take a break from music to make collages. The collage work has definitely changed how I approach music making and vice-versa. "Finish and publish your projects. Your favourites may flop and your throwaways might blow up." Why did you decide to become an artist? I needed album art, and I didn’t have money for a designer. So I began making my own. When I started sharing the art online people really seemed to enjoy them, so I kept at it. After a while I got a real knack for it. Now it’s what I do to unwind, and sometimes for money. Elephant by Dr Apeman | Music Hairy Elefante by Dr Apeman What does the process of creating look like for you? Messy and Chaotic. I begin a collage by amassing dozens of pieces, and mix them together until something jumps out. Then I’ll make a dozen different variations with alternate backgrounds and sizes. Afterwards I delete the unsatisfactory versions until I’m left with two or three final drafts. If you could go back in history and mingle with any creative movement, when would you go and why? 1960s counterculture without a doubt. In addition to the amazing music, visual aesthetic, and positivity it just looks like a wildly fun moment to be alive. Do you look at the past, present or future for inspiration? Lots of the pieces work by juxtaposing something vintage and something futuristic, although they more depict alternate realities rather than any future/past. "Relaxation is a common theme - waterfalls, beaches, sight-seeing, etc… I suppose that’s because that’s the feeling I’m looking for when creating." What are you working on now? I’m currently completing some album cover commissions for some exciting new bands. I have lots of music coming out this year, so creating pieces that. On top of that, I’m trying to keep up with publishing a collage daily. Jupiter Industrial by Dr Apeman | Music LoFi SciFi by Dr Apeman What is the best piece of creative advice you have to share? Finish and publish your projects. Don’t let perfectionism keep you from sharing your work. You will be genuinely surprised by what the public likes. Your favourites may flop and your throwaways might blow up. What themes are central to your work? Science Fiction is a frequent theme. Many collages are what I dub 'alien world' pieces. For example, one might be a 'vacation planet' with a daytime beach scene under a starry sky. Or another might be an industrial scene on one of Jupiter’s moons. Relaxation is a common theme - waterfalls, beaches, sight-seeing, etc… I suppose that’s because that’s the feeling I’m looking for when creating. "Distraction has its place. If I’m stuck, half focusing on something else like a movie or a podcast helps the subconscious problem-solving." How does your art practice help your outlook on the world? It has taught me that there’s an unlimited amount of beauty in the world. Two things can be completely unalike and both be perfect. Life isn’t about being better than anyone, it’s just about making and doing good things.
Waterfall by Dr Apeman | Music Ghost in a Jar by Dr Apeman What do you do when you are stuck for inspiration? [As Picasso said] inspiration exists but it has to find you working, but distraction has its place. If I’m stuck, half focusing on something else like a movie or a podcast helps the subconscious problem-solving. What struggles come with creativity for you? Alternating between sky-high confidence and deep self-doubt. Always wondering if a collage could’ve been better if only x, y, z …
What has been the best moment you've had whilst being an artist? Strangers’ compliments make my day every single time. Dr Apeman is available to find on YouTube , Instagram , Spotify , and a variety of other platforms which you can find here . Want to follow The Dilettante around the internet? You can find us on Facebook , Twitter and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety .
Lupercalia & The Ancient Origins of Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day marks the season of love and courtship, but its ancient roots in the Roman festival of Lupercalia reveal a much more bloody and wild history. It is no coincidence that across different cultures and religions there are festivals and holy days (or holidays as we now call them!) that often fall around similar dates. Whether it be Samhain and Halloween, Yule and Christmas, or Lupercalia and Valentine's Day, a lineage of tradition can be traced back to these specific times of year. Taking a look at the festivities of our ancient ancestors tends to reveal the cultural twists and turns humans have taken over the years, and allows us to inspect our own traditions to see their irrationalities and idiosyncrasies more closely.
With no further delay, let’s delve into the history of St Valentine’s Day and its Roman predecessor, the festival of Lupercalia. The Saint Who Wouldn't Surrender While modern Valentine’s Day is synonymous with red roses and romantic restaurant meal deals, it’s association with the martyred Saint Valentine is much less pleasant. Living in Rome in the 3rd Century AD, Valentinus was a clergyman who had been arrested for practising Christianity and performing illegal marriage rites for Christian couples. While imprisoned, he briefly gained the favour of Rome’s Emperor Claudius Gothicus II, who, according to some descriptions, had recently banned marriages in Rome in order to encourage more soldiers to enlist into the Roman army. A staunch evangelist, Valentinus repeatedly tried to convert the Emperor to Christianity during their discussions, but Claudius eventually became displeased. On February 14th, 269 AD, he ordered Valentine to be brutally beaten by clubs before being executed by beheading.
Claudius got his comeuppance when he died of pestilence a few years later, and over the next few centuries Christianity prevailed throughout Europe. Almost 200 years after Valentine’s death, he was finally canonised as a Saint in the year 496 AD.
An interesting side note to this story is that Valentine is also credited as the patron saint of epilepsy, plague and beekeepers - although accounts are largely murky as to why he is linked with these specific topics! Fertility, Feasting and Naked Priests: The Festival of Lupercalia Over the course of the next 1500 years, Christianity banned and reformed many ancient festivals in a bid to stamp out the pagan roots of both their ancestors and the native traditions of conquered lands. While this erasure of culture has many implications, the original rites and festivities of dates such as Valentine’s Day were often much more wild, intense and bloody before Christian sanitisation. The early Roman festival Lupercalia, for example, essentially reads as an excuse for Roman priests to go batshit for a few days in the pursuit of honouring the gods and encouraging fertility. The name Lupercalia relates to Lupercal, a she-wolf who supposedly nurtured Romulus and Remus, the twin orphans who were said to have founded Rome. Celebrated on 15th February to honour Lupercal’s fertility and maternal instincts, the festival was the classic potent mix of animal sacrifice, feasting, and a sprinkling of more peculiar Pagan rites. On the night of Lupercalia, a sect of Roman priests named Luperci (meaning ‘brothers of the wolf’) would meet inside Lupercal's cave on Palatine Hill in Rome. A goat and dog would be slaughtered in sacrifice, the blood would be wiped across the foreheads of two of the Luperci, then removed with cotton soaked in milk - which had of course been prepared earlier by Vestal Virgins. To close the ritual, the Luperci were expected, for some unexplained reason, to burst into laughter, before enjoying a large feast. Now, owing to the after dinner ‘fun’, we are going to suggest that copious amounts of wine was likely consumed as the Luperci feasted, because once satiated, the next order of duty was to run naked through the streets whipping people with thongs made of leather. Their targets, who were mostly women, were thought to then be blessed with increased fertility and safe pregnancy, which led the festival to be associated with sex, lustfulness and courtship. Once this was out of the way, the Luperci would return to the cave on Palatine Hill and (we can only imagine) congratulate themselves on a good night’s work. Modern Love: The Gods of Commerce As mad and bloody as these ancient customs often were, they were usually carried out to appease the gods, in the hope of rectifying some sort of societal or seasonal difficulty. We might not be able to quite understand the religious fervour with which they were performed, but we can certainly see similarly ludicrous patterns in our modern celebrations today. (Anyone who has worked in retail or hospitality around Christmas will understand this well). Centuries after St Valentine’s bloody death, and his story of Christian martyrdom is often ignored. As the industrial advancements of the Victorian era pushed print, letter-writing, and buying ‘stuff’ to the middle classes, Valentine’s cards and tokens of love became the commonplace rites of February 14th. (We would like to think that the more brutal side of Lupercalia is largely lost to history.) Today it could be argued that Valentine's day is dedicated to the gods of commerce as much as our lovers and the concept of romance. Marked by premature retail displays and grand materialistic gestures, we often grumble that the few festivals we celebrate are now void of their deeper sentiments, rich histories and ancient roots.
But all in all, we’ll take a romantic 2-4-1 pizza and a bottle of wine over naked priests and blood sacrifices any day. Follow The Dilettante around the internet! You can find us on Facebook , Twitter and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety .
Marvellous Humans: The Wonderfully Strange Edward Gorey
We at The Dilettante love to delve into the stories of creatives, eccentrics and marvellous humans. Our latest subject, Edward Gorey, makes for the perfect study of an artist who carved out a curiously singular existence and an impressively unique body of work. So do please come along with us as we explore the life of the wonderfully unusual fellow. “My mission in life is to make everybody as uneasy as possible. I think we should all be as uneasy as possible, because that's what the world is like.” If provoking ominous unease was his aim, then writer and artist Edward Gorey certainly succeeded. Conjuring a world of unsettling situations and ghoulish characters, Gorey's distinctive monochrome drawings were imbued with lashings of unwholesome humour and morbid whimsy. Gorey's droll, dark tone clearly follows in the footsteps of gothic and absurdist Victorian writers such as Edgar Allen Poe and Edward Lear, and his work has continued to delighted audiences for decades, in turn going on to influence modern masters of the macabre including Tim Burton, Neil Gaiman and Lemony Snicket. Born in Chicago on the 22nd February 1925 to a creative family, Gorey taught himself to read by the age of three, gaining him a reputation of being a particularly gifted child. At school he was known by his peers for his creativity and it is said that his yearbook contained a blank square where his photo should be, in which Gorey would draw a doodle of himself when asked.
After a spate in the army during the Second World War, Gorey enrolled at Harvard to study French literature. He shared a room with poet Frank O’Hara, and the two created a salon-like atmosphere in their dorm, hosting numerous parties attended by artists, actors and other students with bohemian sensibilities. But O'Hara's dedicated to partying eventually surpassed Gorey's, and as his interests in art and design took hold, Gorey's penchant for the solitary life grew. After moving to New York in the 1950s, Gorey worked for the art department of Doubleday Anchor, illustrating book covers for titles such as Bram Stoker's Dracula , H. G. Wells' The War of the Worlds , and T. S. Eliot's Old Possum's Book of Practical Cats . Understanding that colour illustrations were more costly to print, it was here that Gorey’s signature black and white cross-hatched style began to take shape. Whilst living in the Big Apple, Gorey became ardently dedicated to the New York City Ballet, attending with such a fervent regularity that it was rumoured he saw every performance of The Nutcracker for several years. Dressed in his signature fur coat and jewellery, he would be seen loitering in the lobby at intervals engaged in humorously scathing gossip about the costumes, dancers and sets. Despite gaining regular work illustrating for commercial magazines and designing theatrical sets, Gorey's own stories certainly catered to a specific, more surreal taste. He found getting published tricky. To allow himself greater artistic freedom, in 1962 he created the Fantod Press. Publishing works from writers such as Ogdred Weary, Mrs Regera Dowdy, Raddory Gewe, Edward Pig, and Garrod Weedy (who were all of course pseudonyms for Gorey himself), over the next 35 years Fantod would publish 28 imagined memoirs, alphabet books and other Gorey stories including The Deranged Cousins , The Beastly Baby and The Abandoned Sock . In 1963, Gorey released The Vinegar Works: Three Volumes of Moral Instruction , a box set of picture books featuring The Insect God , The West Wing , and what would become Gorey’s most famous work, The Gashlycrum Tinies. This dark romp through the alphabet features an array of grim fates beheld by children, including Leo who swallowed some tacks, Zillah who drank too much gin, and Neville who died from ennui. Towards the end of his life, Gorey wound down to living what can only be described as an introvert's dream retirement. He moved into a 200 year old sea captain's house in Cape Cod (which he nicknamed ‘The Elephant House’) and increasingly began to enjoy his own company, often ignoring the telephone, doorbell and fan mail. Free at last from the confines of New York living, Gorey perused second-hand fairs and filled his home with an thousands of books and a melange of art, games, toys, and treasures. He enjoyed watching television and spent hours sewing bizarre beanbag creatures which he would give to friends. “Books. Cats. Life is good,” he is quoted as saying. We couldn’t agree more.
Edward Gorey's stories were certainly too odd for some, and we admire his perseverance in carving his own path despite his unique, sombre style. He died in 2000, leaving his estate to a number of animal welfare charities. His home in Yarmouth, Cape Cod still stands as a dedicated museum The Edward Gorey House and his work published by The Edward Gorey Charitable Trust.
To finish, we highly recommend checking out this delightfully illustrated audio clip of Edward talking about the capers of his beloved cats.
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Introducing St Sloth's Day: A new holiday to perk up January
Short days, chilly climes, grey skies and nothing of note happening... The beginning of the year is always a rather gloomy stretch. With the merry, manic festive period behind us, fairy lights disappear from windows, the fridge is no longer stocked with a brilliant array of cheese, and spiking your morning coffee with Irish cream becomes a little more questionable. January is a sluggish, nagging month to say the least. To add to the usual dreariness, the past two years have greeted us with yet more grim world news, lockdowns and general feelings of quiet peril. Shut in our homes and buckled in for a tedious, troublesome ride, the strain on mental health has been particularly intense. We at The Dilettante have been ruminating on how to combat this and have decided it is time to invent a new holiday to perk up January... introducing St Sloth’s Day. Landing on any Saturday of your choosing in January (or whenever you have a day to spend really), St Sloth’s Day is basically a second Christmas but free of its stressful demands. A day to revel in doing nothing and to savour your home comforts, it is your free day pass to avoid obligation and worry. On the day itself, wake up whenever you fancy. Luxuriate over a long breakfast and think of all the times you have rushed to leave the house at the crack of dawn with only a boring piece of toast. The rest of the day can unfold as you wish. Today, you are basically a cat, and are allowed to nap, eat and potter at your leisure. Light that ridiculously overpriced candle that you fear using up. Watch movies that make you feel warm and happy. Curl up with a really good book. Don’t look at social media or the news. Take a bath. Stretch. Breathe.
The making of the tea is an important part of the day and should be treated as a precious ceremony. A teapot is advised, to get the most tea for the least effort, and as many biscuits to dunk as you damn well like. You may want to load up a tray of fruits, chocolate and other nibbly things to enjoy as you idle in bed. If you are assuming the guise of a rich nineteenth century dandy and lolling around as if it were your job, you’re doing this right. We may have spent most of the past two years in our pyjamas watching the television, but St Sloth’s Day is a horse of a different colour. Perhaps we were hasty when we said the day held no obligations, for there is one small order: you must be mindful of the fortunes life has brought you. Marvel over your central heating. Taste your food. Thank your blankets. Spend a little time making a list about the things you are blessed with that make you happy. Enjoy the quiet, cosiness of your surroundings.
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10 Ways The Roaring Twenties Changed The World
The 1920s was an era like no other. With the start of the 19th century dominated by the First World War and topped off by a deadly pandemic, it was not until the '20s that society was finally able to unbuckle the shackles of the more stuffy Victorian era. So began an epoch of great change and innovation, but what was the legacy of the decade that roared?
Let us take you on a whistlestop tour of the 1920s with 10 of the era’s most definitive features... INDUSTRIAL DYNAMISM In 1920 just 6% of British homes were powered by electricity, but by the end of the decade pylons dotted the landscape. Life-changing technological advancements such as motor cars granted new freedoms, while the first transatlantic flight in 1927, the birth of radio, and the formation of the BBC in 1922 signalled an ever more connected world. THE SILVER SCREEN New forms of media such as film began to take hold on the public imagination, introducing the stars of the big screen and the influence of advertising. In cinema, focus was put on extravagant feature length artworks rather than short reels, and 1927 saw the release of the first ‘talkie’ The Jazz Singer . While studios created their empires in Hollywood, the influence of German Expressionism and Soviet cinema held sway stylistically with films such as The Cabinet of Dr Caligari (1920), Nosferatu (1922), Battleship Potemkin (1926), and Metropolis (1927). All of which are available on YouTube to watch for free and come highly recommended for late night vintage viewing! THE MODERN METROPOLIS A similar innovative rampancy was taking place in cities as high rates of employment drew young people into the cultural melting pot of the metropolis. Here, where the impressionable could mingle, the desire to embrace modernity was increasingly visible and widespread in architecture, fashion, and entertainment. In 1930, New York's Chrysler Building became the world’s tallest structure, symbolising the aspirations of the chic and modern city. Jazz made its way from America to Europe. Nightclubs, cocktail bars and jazz joints flourished, and new dance crazes such as foxtrot, charleston and lindy hop gave expression to the more liberal youth. ART EXPLOSION With its linear, geometric glamour, Art Deco became the dominant commercial style, influencing everything from architecture and furniture to fashion and jewellery. In painting, more avant-garde artistic movements such as Cubism and Surrealism emerged providing layered commentary on the cultural zeitgeist, while the Dada and Bauhaus movements blurred the boundaries between art and life. THE BRIGHT YOUNG THINGS After a childhood of disruption and turmoil, a new generation emerged armed with a desire for hedonism and a fierce intent to discard the stifling hangover of Victorian England. Many were too young to have fought in the Great War, but grew up acutely aware of their own mortality having lost loved ones in the battlefield and to the Spanish Flu pandemic. The Bright Young Things, an exuberant assortment of wealthy aristocrats, avant-garde artists and bon vivants dominated the tabloids. The term ‘The Lost Generation’ was coined by influential salon hostess and art collector Gertrude Stein and referred to expatriate writers such as Hemingway and Fitzgerald, but was broadened to describe the restlessness and decadence of the 1920s youth. FASHION DAHLING Fashion became looser and more comfortable, mirroring the desires of the younger, more liberal generation. Corsets were discarded and women bobbed their hair, began wearing make-up, and adopted ‘scandalous’ behaviour such as drinking, smoking and swearing in public. The fun-loving, free-living flapper became the style icon of the decade, and a boyish ‘garconne’ silhouette was coveted. WOMEN’S RIGHTS Women over 30 had won the right to vote in 1918, yet still a third of women in the UK were prohibited from voting, and it was only after continued activism through the 1920s that men and women finally achieved the same voting rights in 1928. In Britain, the first birth control clinic was opened in 1921 and by 1930 several clinics together formed the National Birth Control Council. Due to the industrial upheaval of WWI, support grew for women to gain employment in certain fields, ultimately providing the opportunity for greater independence outside of marriage. THE VERGE OF A GREAT DEPRESSION Laissez-faire economics throughout the 20s generated a boom in the number of millionaires and credit became widely available to the average person, inevitably causing the economic crash of 1929 and the Great Depression. Between this time and 1933 the stock market lost 90% of its value, over 11,000 banks closed and household incomes were reduced by a third. PSYCHOLOGICAL EXPLORATION Interest in childhood development grew rapidly. The Behaviourist Movement gradually gained popularity due to works by psychologist John Watson, who emphasised the effect of outward actions, learning, and external factors on development. In contrast, Sigmund Freud’s influential 1923 paper The Ego & The Id , delved deeper into the psychic apparatus of the mind. THE CONTINUED FIGHT Much like today, the 1920s saw a cultural climate battling with opposition and disparity. Education for children became compulsory and free, while the Education Act 1921 created schooling for disabled children. Ireland became an independent country in 1922, yet the British still ruled around a quarter of the Earth. Rising xenophobia saw the KKK reach 5 million members in the USA, while the Nazi Party gained popularity in Germany, ultimately providing a fertile ground for the nationalism that aided Second World War.
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83 creative ideas for winter lockdown
The idea of spending winter in lockdown can easily provoke a bad case of doom, gloom and boredom. This year has been like no other, and as the seasons change we will once again have to adapt and make the best of it. With the sun gracing us with its presence less and less, being stuck indoors and turning to the TV for entertainment comes easy, but we all know how tedious this can become.
Rather than muddling through aimlessly, we have been making plans. Here we present 83 creative, cheap, productive and amusing ways to while away the winter and fend off the creeping ennui . Let us know which are your favourites or what ideas you have come up with in the comments.
Check out This Is What We Are Doing Now Part One and Part Two for more ideas! Make a fort. Bake something tasty. Spend a night watching schlocky vintage horror movies on YouTube. The Bat (1959 ) , What's The Matter With Helen (1971) , and House on the Haunted Hill (1959) are all excellent places to start. Make a scrapbook out of old gig tickets. Learn how to juggle. Write a letter to a friend far away who’d appreciate it. It is SUCH a treat to have fun post come through the letterbox, and its perfect for those who don't like to talk on the phone. Make chutney and jam. The ingredients are quite minimal and you can finally find a use for random jars you can’t help but collect. Write a quiz and once again rally your friends for a night on Zoom. Have a staring contest with your pet. Make a zine. Handwrite it, type it, or use a newspaper and start collaging. Do something nice for someone or ask someone how you can help them. Rearrange your furniture. Sew up your much loved but rather holey clothes. Give yourself a bizarre makeover and design yourself an absurd alter ego for a day. Stretch. Make up limericks about your friends and send them a surprise text. Read the dictionary and write down your favourite words. Learn a dance routine on YouTube. ( Deceptacon by Le Tigre is our favourite) Listen to an album from start to finish and read all the lyrics like its 2002. Take an aimless wander (or as the French would say derive ) around your neighbourhood and try to spot the things you’ve never noticed. Buy a bag of googly eyes and make faces on random objects. (Extra points if you do this on the aforementioned walk). Do that thing you’ve been putting off (but will actually only take ten minutes.) Have a kitchen disco. Pay someone a compliment. Listen to the latest albums of an artist you love, but have forgotten to keep following. Teach yourself a party trick. (There will be parties again one day!) Indulge in your guilty pleasure. Could be a song or film you can’t help but love, or eating peanut butter with a spoon, doesn't matter). Look through old photos. Stick them in an album or sketchbook or send the files off to be printed. Write about your year. There will be strange, mundane details you will one day forget. It will be a fascinating piece of social history to look back on and help when you regale the youth with the story of 2020. Make a list of the classic movies you have always meant to see and instigate a regular Classics Night with popcorn and pizza. Research your house. Find out when it was built. Imagine who lived there before you. Throw yourself into a new creative project. Start painting, embroidering, knitting, making pop-up books, learning the harmonica - whatever you like. If you're terrible to start with, IT DOESN'T MATTER. Dust off that other creative project you’ve been procrastinating on. Learn a card trick. Confuse the kids. Make an action plan of something you want to achieve. Break it down into small sections so it’s not a mountainous task. Complete the first step. Promote a friend’s business on social media or write them a glowing review. Spend an evening getting absorbed in ideas by binging TED Talks . Write a letter to yourself in the future, or make a time capsule, and hide it somewhere deep in your house. Make compilations for your friends. Extra points if you go ‘old-fashioned’ with a CD or tape and add your own artwork. Go to an international supermarket and buy mystery vegetables and ingredients, then spend some time on the internet looking up what you've got and what to do with it. Look up interviews on YouTube of someone who inspires you. Here's one of our favourites with the legend that is Tom Waits . Make a video diary of your day. (Or check out the Life in a Day , a documentary compiled with snippets of home videos from all over the world, filmed on the same day in 2010). Call an old friend and reminisce about old times and the silliest things you used to get up to. Its often amazing how many shared antics you may have forgotten about. Buy yourself some ridiculous slippers. Make a bucketlist of audacious ambitions. Pretend you’re on a cooking show and provide narration as you make dinner. Buy a jolly looking plant and give it a name. Ask your family elders questions about their life. Pretend you are a 19th century dandy. Dress up, drape yourself on the sofa, perhaps drink some gin, and lament your sorrows with dramatic gesticulations. Clean out your inbox and unsubscribe to any annoying email lists. Tell someone you love them. Give your plants a bit of TLC. Snip of the dead bits, repot them, or give them some nutrients. Get crafty and make some decorations for the festive period. Don't forget to decorate the window for passers-by. Make a list of all the things you want to do when the pandemic is over. Organise your food cupboards and treat yourself to an ingredient you’ve never used. Make some homemade cleaning products with lemon, vinegar and essential oils. Meditate. If you can’t turn off your mind, try counting breaths, downloading an app, or reflecting positively on something good. Buy a puzzle book and get deeply addicted to the crossword. Send a care package to a friend. Re-read your favourite book. Preferably whilst wrapped in a blanket.
Start a journal. Subscribe to a print magazine that will fall on your doorstep and bring joy every so often. Invent a new cocktail and give it a name. Instigate Fancy Fridays. Dress up to the nines, have a tipple, make a sumptuous dinner and listen to some tunes. Learn the difference between something you’ve never got the hang of. For example, types of wine, trees, birds or art periods. See if your local art gallery or museum has any online events or walkthroughs. Read poetry aloud. Anything is acceptable, from Byron to tongue twisters! Practise your signature. Make it FANCY. Find a new comedian to make you chuckle. Actually just indulge in anything that gives you big belly laughs. Write down the things that have been on your mind, then burn the paper. Make scrabble happen. Cull anything in your wardrobe that is uncomfortable, ugly, or you never wear. Plan out the narrative for a book you want to write. They say everyone has a novel in them somewhere! Start a doodle diary - no matter what your drawing skills - and draw one thing a day. Wrap up warm, find a bench and get down to some people watching. Make notes. And of course wear some shades for extra mystery. Write a love letter to yourself. Make it as dramatically passionate as you like. Fix something that has been knocking around broken for too long. We all have something we've been meaning to fix. Practice breathing. Enjoy the calm. Make some art. Doesn't matter if its bad, just enjoy the process. Try pointillism, fingerpainting, or drawing with your eyes closed if you need somewhere to start. Make a wanderlist of places you want to visit. Try the surrealist technique of automatic writing . Enjoy the feeling of getting your thoughts out onto the page, allow yourself to be surprised, and don’t judge what comes out. Potter around the house. Do nothing, but revel in being cosy and safe. Resist any feelings of guilt. Come up with a list like this yourself. Stick it on the fridge. Whatever you get up to stay cosy, stay curious and remember this time will one day be a thing of the past. Don't forget to follow The Dilettante around the internet! You can find us on Facebook and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety !
Lockdown, Creativity, and unconventional careers with Professor Elemental
Bubbling with a combination of wit, whimsy and lyrical mastery, they just don’t make ‘em like Professor Elemental very often. The Dilettante sat down for a lovely chat with the chap-hop star to discover his thoughts on creativity, convention and his post-corona plans. Well, 2020 certainly threw a spanner in the works. How have you been doing? I was having a really nice time before lockdown happened, so when people started saying it’s quite nice to take a break, slow down and reflect, I didn’t really feel that. Basically I had a few months of living in the 1950s and I've been no worse for it, but I’m ready for a bit more weirdness back in my life now. Have you been able to hatch any wonderful plans during lockdown? I’ve got an album coming out called Nemesis, which will be released in the spring. We did a big competition to find a villain I could face and now we’re creating the record. I’m sadly making the assumption that corona will be around throughout 2021, so I’ll be doing less gigs, or in a more socially distanced way. But I want to get more active with protests and things like that… and hopefully cause some mischief. There’s certainly a lot of mischief in the Professor’s world. How do you find performing under an alter-ego? I find the constraints of the Professor, creatively, are really useful. I use him like a little lens to focus all the stuff I want to do. So he’s a very useful foil, but he just needs to be kept under control. If he gets out of his box too often, suddenly I’m just a mad man in a hat who’s been kicked out by his wife and is living in a caravan - which is my greatest and very real fear. What would be your advice for anyone whose creative pursuits aren’t exactly conventional? Well I found a really nice little niche and I don’t need to do anything else. I realised I could make a living by doing this, which is amazing, but I also realised that no record label will ever put out one of my records. I will never necessarily break into the mainstream. If you can find a niche and find a few people who like your stuff and will support you, you’re sorted. I like to think some of the bigger dreams don’t make you happier anyway. You’ve got to please yourself when it comes to creative stuff, and then if it fails it doesn’t matter because you had a nice time doing it. So you can’t lose I think. Do you think music has lost its showmanship in the modern day? Showmanship to me has always been people like Frank Sidebottom or Vivian Stanshall, but they were never in the mainstream, they were on the fringes. I love hip hop so, so much, but it can be so boring to watch so I think a bit of showmanship is nice actually. Perhaps it comes a lot easier to the weirder acts, because you’ve got nothing to lose really. It doesn’t matter if you make a mistake because you’re tiny anyway. I think the truest thing when doing anything on the stage, is as long as you look like you’re having a nice time, people will grant you a lot more leeway if you're messing up. The Professor's latest single 'Devil in the Desert' is out now! Head to www.professorelemental.com to order yourself a treat and keep up with the Prof's latest adventures! Want to hear more? Enjoy a most spirited and entertaining parley with Professor Elemental in the brand new Dilettante Podcast ! In episode one we delve into the makings of mischief, from classic cartoon capers to the history of Mischief Night . Don't forget to follow The Dilettante around the internet! You can find us on Facebook and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety !
This is what we're doing now: winter survival tips 2020 part 2
As we settle into a second lockdown with the long winter looming ahead, looking after our mental health is more important than ever. We made it through the spring with sunshine and solidarity, but the chilly days and dark nights can make the isolation of lockdown seem even more daunting.
Rather than muddling through aimlessly, we have come up with a plan to combat this dread. Each week we’ll be publishing What We Are Doing Now, a series of suggestions to make your winter lockdown a more satisfying, cosy and jovial experience. Click here for last week's blog! This is what we are doing now and these are your orders: We will go analogue We all know how smartphones have become a veritable dominatrix over our daily lives. Filling the breaks, quickening the pace, and bombarding us with information at all times and places - it’s truly tiring, but it’s also terribly tricky to know how to unleash ourselves from their omnipotent grip. We suggest giving your brain a breather by having an analogue day.
Avoiding the old dog and bone completely is sometimes unavoidable, but leaving it in another room is a good start. The trick is to find tangible pursuits to engross your attention - the kind of lovely wholesome things we did before the internet whirlwind took hold are ideal choices. Spend a slow Sunday listening to records or cracking out your dusty CD collection. Get lost in a novel whilst wrapped in a blanket on the sofa. Repair those so-loved-but-so-holey clothes you’ve missed wearing. Or perhaps you'd like to get crafty, learn how to knit, or finally make a scrapbook of all your old gig tickets.
Put the kettle on, enjoy your senses, and breathe in the space. We will be playful Remember when you reluctantly arrived at that awkward age when ‘cool’ took over? Your interests suddenly became ‘childish’; kaleidoscopes, yo-yos and She-Ra castles were carried off to the attic, you stopped collecting those once coveted gemstones, stickers, or pogs. Sunbathing replaced sandcastles, flirting took over from fancy dress, and the floor was rarely lava. Now we’re grown and much less worried about impressing our friends, is it not time to get playful again?
One of the main tenets of The Dilettante is to encourage creative dabbling. So while you might not want to crack out actual toys, allow yourself to tap into the playful creativity we had as children. Next time you try something new, abolish the idea of perfection and let yourself be a beginner. Be silly, make mistakes and let your imagination run amok.
We will make fire As the days get shorter and evenings are shrouded in darkness, twinkling lights and warm fires become an absolute delight. There is something enchanting and ancient about watching a fire burn. It links us with our ancestors, reminds us of our basic survival, and provides a hypnotic calm to get lost in.
We usually get our fiery fix on November 5th, but Bonfire Night events are unfortunately cancelled this year. Check out if there are any drive-in events happening in your area, or if you’re lucky enough to own a fire basket or chimenea - make the most of it! Grab some blankets, pour a brew, and spend a little time under the stars. Candles can be just as charming indoors, and the magic of sparklers will never expire. Standard reminder: be safe not stupid. We will feel rubbish sometimes And that’s okay. Life is difficult for many people at the moment and there will be days when things seem overwhelmingly gloomy. Trying to lead a relatively normal existence in the face of a global crisis will not always go smoothly. It is not your fault. You are allowed to feel like an old worn out slipper and you are still worthy even when you don’t feel strong. Let yourself lean into your feelings from time to time, but resolve to put a time cap on how long you allow yourself to wallow. Do something lovely for yourself. Do something lovely for someone else. We will get through this. We will not forget to dance
Dancing is one of life’s great pleasures. When you really think about it, it is quite a rare and wonderful thing for us humans to abandon our mental faculties and go harmlessly primal for a while. Dancing scratches a special itch for many of us, and DAMN it has been too long since we were able to twist, gyrate, and shake in a room full of strangers.
We must not forget to dance. Shimmy when you get out of the shower. Hold a disco in your kitchen. Learn a hilarious routine from YouTube. Perplex your pets with your moves. Perfect your robot. Dance like there's nobody watching (because that’s probably the case) and if you feel silly all the better. Don't forget to follow The Dilettante around the internet! You can find us on Facebook and Instagram or use #TheDilettanteSociety !